Never give up

Decades ago, I was working for the Government and posted in a remote village nestled in the foothills of the Himalayas. The place did not have proper roads. There was no way to communicate with the outside world in case of an emergency. A bamboo hut with a steel sheet for a roof was my office cum residence!
There were about ten shops in the entire village. One of the shop keepers was Anil. He ran a tea shop. It was a one-room affair which hardly attracted any customers. He was about my age, married, and lived with his wife behind the shop.
We became good friends. I love to eat samosas, and he would make them for me and serve it with piping hot cups of tea. He would refuse to take any money from me. I would still pay the money to his wife. I noticed he would close the shop early, usually minutes after I had left.
People in the village said he was lazy. I spoke to him about it and realized he was not interested in running the hotel. He used to talk about his plans in life. He compared his life and mine. He rued his lack of education. With him, it was all complaints.
Every month, I had to travel to the state capital on official work. I was there for a week. As I stepped out of the bus on my return, I heard the news that Anil has committed suicide. He had hanged himself in his shop. His wife had left the village and now stayed with some relatives of hers.

I could not understand why he had committed suicide? He was young, healthy and had a family to look after. For some time, I felt guilty. Somehow I felt, I had not done enough for him. It was not that life was smooth for the rest of us in that village. There was no regular electricity supply nor piped water. We all survived on rainwater !! Life there was tough, but we never gave up. I learnt a few lessons from that incident and from that village.

Hiding from problems in life is not a solution. Face your problems head-on and find a solution to them. You are the best judge of what your strength and weakness are. Based on that, decide the best course of action. Most of us have faced job loss, salary cuts, been in an accident or faced some life crisis. Like everyone else on this planet, I have had my share of setbacks in life. I have found that each experience only adds to your knowledge and learning. As the saying goes

‘When life gives you lemons, make lemonade’.

You are stronger than you think. ‘Never give up!’

9 thoughts on “Never give up

  1. I find your piece of writing very moving. There are moments in life that are really tough and it all depends from which point of view we look at them. On one hand there are people who are strong enough to overcome them even with ups and downs. On the other hand there are others who are not able to do so because they are like that and we have to accept them and their choice. Even if the main point as you mention is that :” Never give up”is the best piece of advice and approach to life.🤗😍

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  2. I was discussing suicide with a friend not too long ago. Years ago, I was asked by a friend to drive his fiancee to work because he was having trouble understanding what she was going through. Well, the morning I went to pick her up, she was trying to commit suicide. I decided I would spend the time letting her talk and explaining what she was going through. I enlisted my girlfriend also to spend a lot of time with her. Sometimes people just need someone who can understand what they are going through. They both were happily married. She never attempted suicide again.

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